I had to get your attention. Especially if you are a women surviving domestic violence. I'm asking you, No; I'm begging you. "Please get Help". I'm not saying this as a professional, a counselor, or as an expert. But, as the daughter of a women that lived though 17 years of mental, and physical abuse. Someone that knows abuse does'nt just effect the present, but also the future. In ways you can't even begin to imagine.
This is not a sophisticated thesis on the theories of Domestic Violence, nor is it a raw and brutal account of my experience with it(abuse).
My goal in doing this is not to glorify, or sensationalize something so real, and demoralizing. My goal is to inspire abused and the abuser to get Help!!! I won't bullst you with a lot of intellectual jargon....

I want to be so direct, and so simple that it makes a straight path to you heart.
Please; get Help!!!
If not for yourself, than for the sake of your child, or children. This may sound harsh, but please understand, You Do Not Have a Right to destroy your child's Life.
Please Get Help!!!

National Domestic Hotline
1800-799-safe, or 1800-799-7233
http://www.ndvh.org/

Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224.

Warning: Before e-mailing or using this Web site, know that an abuser in the home can discover your Internet activities. The safest way to find information on the Internet would be at a local library or a friend's house. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), TDD 1-800-787-3224.

These are just a few numbers, and places to start, and there are just to many to list here.
But, there is help you don't have to suffer like this. When my beautiful mommy was being abused there was no safe place for her, no numbers, no organaztions to help her. But, there is help Now!!!

Keep those friend request coming.  I never had a reason to turn anyone down. Most people on here are very cool, and sweet to me.  For me its all about the communciation. I may not have time to get back to everyone, but I try my best to be open, and honest.  I'm not going to always agree with everyone on here, but if I choose you to be on my friends list then I want to hear what you have to say. The good, and the bad.  As long as you have a decent level of home training, and you don't get ugley with your comment, its all good.  You can still find me on MySpace, and Facebook, but for now Xanga has some really interesting members. Don't forget to visit me on Freewebs, under the name; HapiHome.......

 

I just answered this Featured Question; you can answer it too!